
The Diary Of A CEO
Stock Expert: Becoming Rich Is Simple, But You Won’t Do It!
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Ben Felix, a CIO managing money for over 3,000 people, reveals why most financial advice is dead wrong. Using academic research spanning 39 countries back to 1890, he dismantles conventional wisdom on homeownership, retirement planning, and investing. The surprising takeaway: becoming wealthy is simple, but most people won't follow the evidence.
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The Hidden Costs of Homeownership That Drain Your Wealth
Ben Felix starts by laying out a stack of cards representing the "unrecoverable costs" of owning a home. Most people see homeownership as a no-brainer investment, but Felix argues they're missing a crucial calculation. Mortgage interest is the obvious one: you're paying the bank for the privilege of borrowing money, and those dollars vanish. Property taxes, typically 0.5% to 1% of your home's value annually, are another hit. You get utilities and services in return, but the cash is gone. Then comes maintenance, which Felix calls "the annoying one" and the cost people underestimate most. He used to think 1% of property value per year was reasonable. After six years as a homeowner, he's convinced it's over 2%. His own experience mirrors this: every time he returns to his house (which is in a different country), he spends the first week cataloging new expenses. Broken pool pump, cracked patio, faulty heating system. The list never ends, and it's never cheap. Emergency costs like a new roof or foundation repair can run into tens of thousands, forcing you to keep liquid cash on hand instead of investing it. Even renovation spending sneaks in because when you fix something, you don't just restore it to baseline. You upgrade. The biggest cost, though, is opportunity cost. Whatever equity you have locked in your home could have been invested in the stock market. Real estate historically appreciates around the rate of inflation, maybe slightly higher. Stocks have far outpaced inflation. Felix created the "5% rule" to make this tangible: take the home price, multiply by 5%, divide by 12. That's the monthly rent where you break even between renting and owning. For a $300,000 house, that's $1,250. If you can rent for less, renting is the better financial decision. Felix pushes back on the common objection that "rents are higher than mortgage payments." People forget to add property taxes, maintenance, and opportunity cost. The true cost of owning is far more than the mortgage. He also questions the belief that homeowners are happier. Studies from Statistics Canada show that when you control for property type and neighborhood, renters and owners report similar life satisfaction. Owned homes tend to be nicer and in better areas, which explains the happiness gap. For young people especially, homeownership can be a trap. It limits mobility. If you buy a condo in Toronto and get a job offer abroad, you're stuck. Felix and his wife rented four different places as their family grew from zero to four kids. Switching homes as needs changed would have cost them a fortune in transaction fees if they'd been owners. The only people who should buy, he argues, are those who are very risk-averse, planning to stay in one place for decades, or high-income taxable investors who benefit from real estate's tax advantages.
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